When we are in a relationship, we want to be happy, right? I mean, isn't that kind of what we seek in another person? Well let me tell you now that I'm not perfect, nor do I claim to be. However, I've been around the block a couple of times and I know some really good tips that you can try to become the best girlfriend you can be!
1.Boost His Ego
Men are naturally dominant. They like to feel in power and in control, and just like women like to be complemented, men do to! Tell him on a regular basis how awesome he is, how much you appreciate him, how smart he is, how good he is at something... etc. Confidence is really important in a relationship and when you make your man feel confident, you also make him feel secure and appreciated!
2. Respect His Space
As much as you love him and love spending time with him, he does need time to be with his friends, and so do you! When in a relationship, it's really easy to end up spending every single day with your significant other, but don't forget about all your friends who have had your back before your man was in the picture! Give him his own time as well to be with his guys and relax. A bonus, if he's not with you, he'll begin to miss you! Then the time you spend together after that will be more anticipated and exciting.
3. Be Careful of His Feelings
Although it's very true that men aren't nearly as emotional as women are, they have just as many feelings. Men don't typically express their feelings in the same way women do. In fact, most men never talk about their feelings. Although it's very important not to pry, ensure him that if he ever needs anyone to talk to or cry to or just needs a shoulder that you will be there for him! It might seem a little sappy, but I guarantee you he will take it to heart and appreciate it. Be careful what you say to him as well! Don't tease him, especially in front of his friends. In a good relationship, couples feel safe and secure in one another. Don't take away his dignity or humiliate him, because that is the easiest way to get him to break up with you!
4. Give Him What He Wants
As women, it's easy for us to take every matter into our own hands and take care of everything without letting your man get a word in edgewise! When it comes to making decisions, try asking him what HE wants. Knowing you care about what he wants will make him happy and feel empowered and feisty! Use it to your advantage. Plus, it feels good to our conscience to know we did something someone else wanted to for once.
5. Have FUN With Him!
It doesn't matter if you're 16 or 90, you are never too old to go have a fun time with your man! Keep in mind not everything you do has to be adult only. Go have old fashioned fun together! Go mini-golfing, go to a theme park, go on a picnic, a concert, drive in movie, or a hike, go camping... the possibilities are endless! Spending time is different than wasting time! Take charge of the valuable time you have with your man and make the most of it! No guy wants a girl who doesn't know how to have some fun!
xoxo
Darthreenie
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